Adelie and Staley's World

Adelie and Staley's World

Wednesday, December 29, 2021

She Writes...

A life for a fish
by Adelie

A tank full of water, and flakey food,
This is the life for a fish.
Shiny tails, and smooth scales,
This is the life for a fish.

People who care, faces everywhere,
This is a life for a fish.
Colored pebbles, nice sea plants,
This is a life for a fish.

Weather its swimming with friends,
Gasping at your reflection,
or looking for food, 
this is a life for a fish!

Adelie reading her fish poem book to the fish.

Merry Christmas

Our Christmas Day started off with a negative COVID home test so Briggs could officially lose his mask and spend the day without distancing from the family.  We swabbed a nose, read the Christmas story together, and then headed downstairs for presents.

Stockings are always a highlight.  Toothbrushes, socks, ornaments, hair clips, sleep masks, calendars, cars, fidgets...  The kids always love seeing what is in their stockings.

My kids love to make gifts for each other.  This year Briggs made Adelie a whole set of Harry Potter perler bead characters.  He made Staley an airplane out of a toilet paper roll and a sign taped to a Kleenex box that read, "I love Staley."

Adelie made Briggs a set of coupons for things like reading books together and playing several specific games together for 15 minutes, and she made Staley this denim purse with a pair of old jeans and a hot glue gun.

Staley wrote a personalized fairy tale for both Adelie and Briggs.  Adelie's was based on 'The Little Mermaid' and Briggs' was based on 'Beauty and the Beast.'

We gave the kids two family gifts.  This push pin travel map to document our adventures...

and a little fish tank with 4 baby guppies that the kids named Bubbles, Little Zipper, X-ray, and Terry.

Each of the kids also got a top Christmas item from their list.  Briggs got this remote control Lego train.

Adelie got a pedicure tub with some other pedicure accessories.

Staley got an old-school Ipod Nano loaded with music, earphones, and an Ipod docking station/speaker so she can listen with her brother and sister.  

The rest of the day was spent putting together and then playing with the Lego train...

giving pedicures...

and listening to music.

We got a quick socially distanced visit from Zach's sister and kids (complete with an original "12 Days of Quarantine" serenade) and then enjoyed a family walk and some outdoor play time at the park since the weather was beautiful.

Our day ended with a scrumptious Christmas dinner that our neighbor, Miss Vickie, prepared for us.

Our Christmas was a quiet day.  I watched my kids experience so much joy in their acts of giving to us and each other.  I was touched by their gratefulness in the presents that they opened.  I relished the enjoyment they got out of their new Christmas treasures throughout the day.  I was so thankful for the gift of a Christmas meal that I didn't have to cook.  I appreciated the nice weather and the time spent together.  It was a very merry Christmas indeed.   

Covid Christmas

Instead of the week leading up to Christmas being filled with school Christmas parties and baking and wrapping and delivering goodies to neighbors and family get-togethers, ours was filled with Covid tests and masks and stress and anxiety and time at home.  In the midst of the stress and anxiety, however, we still tried to make time for special family memories for the kids.

Briggs was a trooper all week about wearing a mask and trying to keep his distance from the rest of the family.  He spent all his meal times at his own little table in the dining room.

We watched Christmas movies every evening...with Briggs on his end of the couch and the rest of us on the other end.

Adelie and Briggs spent one morning playing 'covid'.  Their stuffed animals got covid vaccines and covid tests.  

Who knew that 2021 Christmas break games would include masks and shots and band aids instead of Santa and presents and festive fun?

Because the kids missed their Christmas parties at school, we did a virtual party with the girls' friends Stella and Olivia, who were also in quarantine.  We had games and trivia and a scavenger hunt.  And Adelie and Briggs' teachers both dropped off some treats and crafts from the parties they missed so they got to participate in their own way.  (This was the only picture I have of the "party" from Stella and Oliva's mom.  My kids are the ones on the tablet.)

Every year the kids ask Zach to do outdoor lights and decorations for Christmas.  Every year he says 'no'.  As a special treat, Zach went to Menards a few days before Christmas and bought some outdoor decorations to surprise the kids.

Although highly picked over, Zach was able to find some icicle lights, a few small inflatables, and the highlight...a Christmas train!

As they were putting up the lights, Briggs told Zach, "This is the best day of my life!"

The kids were very excited about the outcome.  They named the little Christmas tree 'Barley' and the Mickey Mouse Santa inflatable 'Peppy.'  The amount of Christmas tacky was well worth it!

The kids also wanted to make Christmas cookies.  Because I didn't feel like we could share treats made in our house of contagion, we just made one batch of frosted sugar cookies.

The kids had lots of fun cutting out the cookies and then frosting and decorating them.

And because we couldn't share our treats, we all have enjoyed eating them up.

The weather was beautiful on Christmas Eve, so we took the opportunity to get out of the house and go fly kites while Zach was spending his time at the ER.  A new Christmas Eve tradition perhaps?

Because we were unable to get together for family Christmas time with either side of the family, we did a Zoom Christmas gathering with my family where all the kids opened some gifts from Grammie, Grandpa, and Uncle Ethan.

Although it wasn't the same as being together, the kids enjoyed opening their gifts and seeing their cousins open some gifts as well.  Hopefully we can get together to "finish" our Christmas soon.

Our week leading up to Christmas wasn't typical.  It wasn't ideal.  But we found some ways to make it fun.  We were thankful for nice weather so we could play outside and go on family walks.  There was plenty of time for playing and crafts and reading and movie nights.  The circumstances were not ideal and the parents were struggling, but we did what we could to make the best of it.  Hopefully the kids have some fun memories of our covid Christmas week.

Ummmm....

We were all outside the other day.  Adelie started crying and I noticed a few scrapes on her face.  When I asked what happened, she replied, "We were playing blind and I walked into a tree."

Ummmm....

A Hard Good-bye

After almost 20 years as a member of the family, we had to say a hard good-bye to Jake.  Making the decision regarding quality of life for a pet and when it is time to say good-bye is heart wrenching, but after several months of gradual weight loss and fur loss, when Jake suddenly stopped eating and drinking and purring and could barely walk, we knew it was time to say good-bye.


It was a hard decision.  Although there were tears and sad good-byes from all of us, Zach took it the hardest.  Jake and Elwood were Zach's birthday presents almost 20 years ago.  Zach has always been the one to feed them and brush them and change their litter and care for them.  Jake had been Zach's constant co-worker these past 2 years and had always been the most social and affectionate cat Zach had ever had.  Zach said with much affection time and again, "Best cat ever."


Jake really was the best cat ever.  He was social and affectionate, laid-back and mellow.  He loved to snuggle, enjoyed a good box, never failed to sit on the wrapping paper during present wrapping, and liked to drink out of the shower and toilet.  Missing cell phones could often be found under Jake, and he couldn't resist curling up on paper he'd find on the floor.  He always wanted to be near people and made himself a constant fixture in earlier days when we'd have friends over.

From the first days we had them, Jake was always the fluffy, social, mellow one.  While Elwood would be climbing the curtains and skittering away from us, Jake would let anyone hold him.

He could make himself comfortable anywhere.

He loved a good box...

or bag...

or wrapping paper...

or suitcase.

He was always beautiful...

comfortable...

mellow...

and majestic.

If we'd have people over, Jake wanted to be in the middle of the action.  He'd make his way from lap to lap.

He was always patient with the kids.  While Elwood would immediately run away, Jake would let the kids pet him, hold him, or carry him around.

And from his first days...

to his last days...

he loved his brother.

Jake was the best cat ever.

What a gift his life was to us and our family.