Adelie and Staley's World

Adelie and Staley's World

Tuesday, March 31, 2020

Volleyball

Staley played her second season of volleyball this winter.  And with my stellar knowledge from my several years of playing middle school volleyball, I helped out as her assistant coach.  Although her season came to an abrupt end due to the coronavirus, it was still another sport's season that Staley enjoyed and progressed in her skills.  She was very disappointed when the final tournament of the season was cancelled.  

Staley's team

This year Staley moved up from the 1st/2nd grade league to the 3rd/4th grade league.  What a difference!!  There was a huge jump in the skill level between the two leagues.  There were volleys.  There were girls that served overhand.  It seemed like there were girls on every team who also played league volleyball, elevating the level of competition for everyone. 


Staley learned a lot throughout the year.  There were several strong players on her team, which I think intimidated Staley as she would often just watch the ball and hope one of them would get it.  However, with a little incentive the last game of the year (a special dessert treat for the family if she tried to get the ball 5 times throughout the game), Staley had the best game of the year as she was being more aggressive and trying to get to the ball.  I was looking forward to watching her build off that for the tournament, while also wishing we had put that incentive in place at the beginning of the season rather than the end.

Nevertheless, by the end of the season, Staley was pretty consistently getting her serves over and had returned the ball over the net a few times.  She even scored the game winning serves during 2 different games during the season.  She also made some new friends on her team and had a lot of fun.

Although the end of the season wasn't what anyone hoped for, Staley enjoyed her season, had fun with her friends, and progressed with her volleyball skills.  I'll call that a success!!

Saturday, March 28, 2020

Adelie's Birthday

Adelie had big plans for her 7th birthday.  She was going to have a combined family party with Briggs.  She was going to bring treats to school.  She was so excited for me to take a half day off work so I could eat lunch with her at school and spend time with her after early dismissal from school.  She was going to take the train and have a girl's day at the American Girl Doll store in Chicago.  And then coronavirus hit...and all that went out the window.  Did coronavirus ruin Adelie's birthday plans?  Absolutely!  But did it ruin her birthday?  Not in the slightest.

We decorated the house, got out the party hats, and Adelie woke to some yummy monkey bread for breakfast.

Adelie was showered with attention all day long.  She got texts and phone calls from friends and family, video texts from several of her friends from school, and video chats with aunts, cousins, grandparents, and even her teacher.  She had a friend and grandparents drop off gifts for her to open.

And there was even a special visit from Aunt Jill and her cousins...all while maintaining the appropriate social distance, of course.

After her dinner of choice (a Family Feast from Michael's) and some birthday cupcakes, Adelie got to open a few more presents from us.

Staley made Adelie a whole bunch of coupons for things like playing Barbies for 10 minutes, picking the movie for movie night, a lullaby before bed, talking for an extra 5 minutes before going to sleep,...  Adelie LOVED them and has been taking advantage of many of her special choices already.

Briggs made Adelie a card, a picture, and an airplane out of paper.

And then Adelie got a new bike and a new bike helmet to cap off her special day.   It may not have been the birthday that we had planned, but Adelie had a day full of attention and love.  What more could a girl want??

Interview with a 7 Year Old

Favorite color:  Blue
Favorite food:  Grammie meatballs, monkey bread, donuts
Least favorite food:  Broccoli, cauliflower, green beans, baked beans
Favorite restaurant:  Culvers, Steak and Shake, Rainforest CafĂ©, T-Rex Restaurant
Favorite dessert:  Ice cream
Favorite toy:  Everything I play with
Favorite stuffed animal:  Fuzzington
Favorite animal:  Penguins and monkeys
Favorite game:  Go Fish, Uno, Monopoly, Spot It, Candyland
Favorite movie:  Frozen II, live action Aladdin
Favorite sport:  Swimming, running, tumbling
Favorite activity:  Stage Kids, tumbling
Favorite thing to do at home:  Draw
Favorite thing about school:  Reading, lunch, writing
Favorite place to go locally:  State Farm pool
Favorite place to go on vacation:  Disney World, Pentwater
Favorite thing to do with Staley:  Do shows
Favorite thing to do with Briggs:  Play Pud, play fairies and Spike, draw, listen to "The Pond", play Mr. McGreely (all games they've made up to play together)
Favorite thing to do with Mommy:  Cook, go running, when you tuck me into bed
Favorite thing to do with Daddy:  Paint pottery, make pancakes, read
Favorite book:  Pollyanna
Favorite princess:  Ariel
Favorite superhero:  I don't have one
Favorite outfit:  I have lots.
Favorite pajamas:  The nightgown I just got from Staley with the girls on it
Favorite play you've been in:  Peter Pan
Favorite play you've seen:  Wicked

What are you excited about doing when you are 7?  Opening presents, doing the mini track meet, swimming lessons
What are you scared of?:  Going upstairs by myself, the house breaking, the swingset breaking, the porch swing breaking, and spiders
What's the best thing about you?  I'm funny and fast and awesome.
What are you good at?  Singing, reading, math, being silly
Who is your best friend?  I don't really have a BFF, but I have lots of friends like Lola, Jaci, Faith, Aizlee, Max, William, Zola, and a lot of people.
What do you want to be when you grow up?  An author, illustrator, and teacher

My big 7 year old!

Thursday, March 26, 2020

Happy Birthday, Adelie!

How can it be that Adelie is already 7 years old??  Seven years ago, I  had so many fears and worries about moving our family of 3 into a family of 4.  Would I have enough time?  Energy?  Attention?  Love?  Would there be enough of me to give to 2 children?  But from the moment I held Adelie in my arms, I knew that my love for two could be just as big, just as fierce, just as powerful as it was for one.  And each day getting to be Adelie's mom, my heart has to grow a little bit more to accommodate all the love I feel for her.  I may not always have my full share of time, energy, or attention that my kids deserve, but love?  I will never worry about not having enough of that!

This is what love looks like...

at 6 months...

at 1 year...

at 2 years...

at 3 years...

at 4 years...

at 5 years...

at 6 years...

and at 7 years.
I can't imagine loving this little girl anymore than I do right now!
Happy birthday, my little love!
Happy birthday, Adelie!!

Tuesday, March 24, 2020

Adelie Quote of the Day

"The one bad thing about God is when you're in heaven you can't do a surprise for him because he always knows what you are doing."



Monday, March 23, 2020

Our Quarantine...in Photos

We have one week of COVID-19 quarantine under our belts.  One week of home school.  One week of no activities.  One week of no playdates, no church, no get-togethers, and no appointments.  One week of getting into our new routine and getting used to our new situation.  And although the situation in the world around us is troubling, I have thoroughly enjoyed this opportunity to wipe off the calendar, set our own schedule, spend days in our PJs, and just be.  This was what week one looked like in our house:

Family movies nights

Several multi-generational runs with varying members of the family

Lots of reading

Daily schoolwork...

…even for the pre-schooler among us

A few science experiments

Plenty of drawing, writing, and coloring activities

Some baking and cooking

Giving the kids more "opportunities" to help around the house

LOTS of family games, including introducing the kids to Monopoly.  Briggs lost interest about 40 minutes in, but both girls stuck it out for the duration.

Plenty of playtime

Fun craft activities, like finger weaving

There has been the installation of a new TV...and then using said TV to attend our virtual church service on Sunday morning.

Marking things of our long-standing to do list...like installing a new downstairs vanity, cleaning out all the kids' closets, and sorting through all our children's books to see which ones we no longer need.

If we are up against this coronavirus quarantine, we are knocking it out!
I don't love our country's situation right now, but I sure am loving this time with my family.
#countingmyblessings

Sunday, March 22, 2020

America is Closed

As this is our family blog to remember our life at given moments in time, I have struggled to even find the words to discuss THIS moment in time.  This moment where the COVID-19 pandemic took over the world.  This moment where a virus, infecting hundreds of thousands of people, caused everything to come to a screeching halt.  This moment where words like quarantine and shelter-in-place and social distancing became the new normal as we adjusted to living our life in isolation.

For the past week (and indefinitely more to follow), America has been closing up shop.  Schools?  Closed.  Work places?  Closed.  Stores?  Closed.  Churches?  Closed.  Playgrounds?  Closed.  Disney World?  Closed.   Broadway?  Closed.  Every concert.  Every sporting event.  Every meeting.  Every race.  Cancelled.  Everyone who can is working from home.  Schools are doing their best to provide on-line or remote education opportunities.  Churches are live streaming their services.  People are asked to only leave their homes for essentials, like groceries and going to the doctor.  It's an unprecedented time and continues to feel surreal as I survey what is going on around us.

Many people in our country are struggling at the moment.  This virus, much like the flu to healthy individuals, is particularly dangerous to the elderly and medically vulnerable.  It's highly contagious and spreads before individuals even know they have it.  The only way to help control the spread is to keep people away from each other.  And so, small businesses are being forced to close up shop.  Many people are losing their jobs.  Restaurants are struggling to stay afloat by providing curb-side carryout services.  Hospitals and nursing homes are not allowing any visitors.  Stores are selling out of daily essentials like toilet paper and cleaning supplies.  It makes me wonder, when this is all said and done, what the state of our country will be.

I hurt for all those who are struggling, either with the illness or the ramifications of all of the closures.  But it's also an opportunity for me to pause and realize how very blessed I am and to focus on the positives that this brings with it.  I am blessed that Zach has a steady job that he can do from home.  I am blessed that I work in a healthcare setting that is proactively taking steps to keep me and those I care for as safe as possible.  I am blessed that school comes easily to my kids and they are not struggling to complete their schoolwork at home.  I am blessed that my kids have so many interests and simply enjoy spending time with each other.  I am blessed that I have friends and family who are staying socially connected via text and calls.  I am blessed to have running as an opportunity for exercise and fresh air, and I am blessed by a running partner who provides support and socialization.  I am blessed by a church that is doing its best to remain connected at a time that connection is difficult.  I am blessed that I love my husband, love my family, and love spending time with them.

I know there are so many disappointments and fears and struggles at this time.  Was Adelie so sad about her birthday festivities being indefinitely postponed?  You bet.  Did Staley shed some tears about her cancelled volleyball tournament?  She sure did.  Is Zach struggling with spending hours shut up in his home office each day for work?  I'm sure he is.  But at the end of the day, we are healthy.  We are together.  With America closed, all there is to do is stay home and enjoy this time as a family.  And that is just what we are doing.


Monday, March 16, 2020

Five Years Old

This is my annual lengthy post about my kids at each age.  Be warned.

Briggs is officially five years old.  He weighs 39 lbs (37th percentile) and is 43" tall (52nd percentile).  Briggs is outgrowing some of his 4T clothes and is now wearing some of his 5T clothes.  He wears size 10 shoes.  Briggs sleeps about 11-12 hours each night, going to bed around 8:00 and waking up between 7:00 and 8:00.  He goes to pre-school 3 afternoons each week in Ms. Stork's class, goes to library story hour, and enjoys Wednesday evening Kids Connection at church and Sunday School and Children's Church on Sundays.  He played soccer in the fall.


Likes:  Briggs loves all things vehicles.  His favorite toys are generally vehicle toys:  his trains and train table, his cars and diggers, his Big Wheel and his bike.  He loves to build with blocks and magna tiles, but is often building bridges, tunnels, and buildings for his vehicles.  In the bathtub, he loves to play with his boats.  He LOVES books, but always looks for vehicle books at the library.  He also has a great sense of humor and always enjoys and understands clever or funny children's books as well.  Briggs now enjoys a variety of movies and TV shows, but Thomas the Train movies, Cars, Planes, and Blaze and the Monster Machines are all favorites.  He also enjoys Paw Patrol and Puppy Dog Pals.  Briggs enjoys drawing, although his specialty is drawing trains.  He also loves doing puzzles (and is very good at them).  Listening to books on tape is another favorite activity.  Briggs rarely plays in the playroom without turning on his favorite audio series, "The Pond."

Playing with his cars is a favorite activity.

 Briggs is a very easy-going boy.  He always likes playing at home, but also enjoys a good outing.  He is very easy to take to the grocery store, Target, or running errands.  He's always game for a trip to the library, the park, the zoo, or a museum.  Wildlife Prairie Park is a favorite because they have a train you can ride.  He has also recently discovered the Caterpillar Museum and has enjoyed that as well.  Briggs has lots of friends that he enjoys spending time with.  Dava is the friend he talks about the most, but he also plays really nicely with Grace (our neighbor) when I watch her on Monday mornings.  He runs around with a group of little boys after church on Sundays with Quinn being his most talked about church friend.  His sisters remains his favorite friends and playmates.

Briggs and Dava sharing his umbrella on a rainy day

Briggs and Grace helping in the kitchen

Briggs just loves his sisters!!

 Briggs is a pretty good eater.  He eats fruits and veggies and breads really well with some resistance to a few of the main dishes I make.  Favorite foods include sloppy joes, meatballs, pancakes, grilled cheese, chicken nuggets, Grammie carrots (cooked carrots with butter and brown sugar), and sweets.  He's pretty easy going about what he wears, but prefers athletic pants and fleece pajamas.

Briggs loves his fleece pajamas all year long.

Dislikes:  Briggs is a creature of habit, so he does not like when things do not go according to his routine, like forgetting to turn on his fan before bed.  He is not always patient when asking for something or wanting to tell me something or waiting for me to do something with him while I am busy.  Briggs remains sensitive to certain things and does not like storms, "scary/intense" parts of movies, or going upstairs by himself (when no one else is up there.)  He also does not like when Adelie doesn't blow her nose in a timely manner.  He has improved in many areas since last summer, so I'm not sure how bothered he will be this summer about beach umbrellas and fireworks, but those would both fall under the "dislike" category upon our last known interactions with them.  Briggs also does not like "itchy" sweaters and he insists on wearing the hood if he is wearing a hooded shirt.

He prefers his comfy pants and sweatshirts.

Skills:  Briggs is a pretty coordinated little guy.  He runs fast.  He rides his Big Wheel, scooter, and bike (with training wheels) really well.  He does pretty well catching and throwing larger balls and stuffed animals.  Briggs is very good at puzzles, completing 100 piece puzzles by himself and 200 piece puzzles with a little help.  He can color in the lines, draws with most of his objects recognizable, and can write his name legibly (with his g's and s occasionally backwards).  Briggs is pretty independent.  He can get himself dressed (including buttons and zippers), pick out his outfits (although still thinks that pants and shirts of the exact same color is a great matching outfit), take himself to bathroom, wash himself up in the shower, and brush his own teeth.  (I know I should help him more with that than I do.  #3rd kid.)

Briggs with his favorite (205 piece) puzzle.

 Briggs loves to be a helper.  He enjoys helping make things in the kitchen.  He is good about cleaning up, clearing his plate, putting dirty clothes in the hamper, putting things in the recycling, and doing his jobs (taking off his bed sheets, putting on his pillowcase, and cleaning the sides of the tub) every Sunday.  He's always happy to help out with yard work or projects that Zach is doing.  Briggs is a bright little guy.  He now knows all his upper case letters, about 2/3 of his lower case letters, his numbers 1-10 (with difficulty knowing the difference between 6 and 9), and can count to 100 (with some help knowing the tens place after 30).  Briggs knows all of his colors and shapes.  He knows his letter sounds and is beginning to sound out some simple words.

Briggs helping Daddy fix the refrigerator.

Working in the yard

Briggs is a very sweet boy.  He is generally kind and thoughtful.  He loves to snuggle and gives sincere compliments.  Briggs is a thinker, talks through things he's trying to figure out, and has a very good memory.  He is also very observant.  He still demonstrates tantrums, fits, and a quick temper when things aren't going his way, but he is also quick to apologize for his outbursts with sincere regret.  Briggs does really well patiently waiting and entertaining himself while we are running errands or while he accompanies me to an appointment.  Briggs is a good friend.  He is great at sharing, will often play what others want to play, and compromises well.   He also entertains himself and can play well on his own.  He is developing an understanding of God and his power and is sincere in his beliefs.  I love Briggs's sweet, gentle, loving self.

I sure do love my 5 year old!!

Friday, March 13, 2020

February Highlights

As a cold, bleak, non-descript month of never-ending winter, there are generally very few highlights in February.  As someone who takes multitudes of pictures, my February folder of photos is annually the smallest and scarcest of the bunch.  Nevertheless there are a few activities in February that help us enjoy this worst month of the year.

Although Valentine's Day is not what I would consider a banner holiday, the kids enjoy parties at school and sharing valentines with friends.  Valentine's Day seems to be a pretty fitting holiday for February.  Pretty weak in comparison to other holidays, but better than nothing.

Staley enjoys making her own valentines for school and was excited about this photo valentine idea.  A bit more expensive than previous years, but way easier than hand-drawing 25 valentines.

This was also the first year that we had to make the dreaded valentine box.  In this Pinterest world of elaborate ideas and time-consuming DIY projects, I was pleased that Staley's idea for her box was easy, quick, and cute.

The other February highlight was the Daddy-Daughter Dance.

The girls were excited about getting dressed up, getting their hair done, and having a special night out with Daddy.

They had a ball!!  They went out to dinner and then danced the night away.  Well, until 8:30 anyway.  Apparently their dance moves garnered considerable attention during the dance contest, although they did not end up winning.

They both thoroughly enjoyed their night with Daddy and their friends.

And Briggs and I enjoyed our own date night while they were away with his activities of choice:  dinner at Steak and Shake followed by "movie" night consisting of several episodes of 'Bubble Guppies.'  I always love time with my little guy!!

February is not my favorite month.  February weather is not my favorite weather.  February holidays are not my favorite holidays.  And February highlights tend to be few and far between.  Nevertheless, my family and time spent with them is my favorite.  So I can overlook what February doesn't have going for it because it's another month that I get to enjoy my beautiful family.