Adelie and Staley's World

Adelie and Staley's World

Saturday, March 31, 2018

Bed Night

Generally speaking, my kids are good sleepers.  They go to bed by 8:00.  They get adequate rest.  They do not usually get up before 7:00.  When it comes to sleep-time habits, I can't really complain.  But I'm going to anyway.

Adelie and Staley have bed time down pat.  We do our bedtime routine with books, prayers, and a lullabye.  We turn out the lights and generally don't hear from them again until morning.  Briggs, on the other hand, has been going through a bit of a rough patch when it comes to bed time.

Briggs still usually takes a 2 hour nap every afternoon.  I still think he needs that nap time.  I still think I need that nap time.  But I think his body has determined that, with his daily nap, he just needs less night time sleep.  Although Briggs still goes to bed around 8:00, he does not fall asleep right away.  When you go to bed at 8:00 and don't fall asleep until 9:30 or after, that gives you lots of time to think about your needs.  Like hugs.  And kisses.  And drinks.  And Kleenexes.  And chapstick.  And going to the bathroom.  And fixing the covers.  And although his room is set up in such a way that he can reach all the things he might possibly need from his bed, he does not feel compelled to meet these needs on his own.  Instead he calls down to us frequently with various needs.  And, as I've mentioned before, patience is not his strong suit.  Or, with the new found freedom his big boy bed allows, he will creep down the stairs just to tell us something or ask us something.  Often he comes downstairs to let us know that his blankets came off.  Yes, that is likely to happen when you keep getting out of bed.  And although he was previously sleeping through the night, it is now not uncommon for Briggs to wake up at least once in the night needing some quick need met before going back to sleep.

The hour or two between the kids bedtime and ours is usually the only time of day that Zach and I can talk, relax, spend time together, or get a few things accomplished.  Having a 3 year old yelling about his foot coming out of the covers and lamenting that it will be a "long, long time" before anyone comes up to remedy the situation takes some of the relaxing out of the equation.

I know that eventually Briggs will be done napping and his night time sleep will improve.  I know that soon enough he will be able to meet his own night time needs.  I know that this is just a phase that will pass.  But right now, it feels like it will be a long, long time...and Briggs and I both don't care to wait that long for anything.

Trying

Briggs was napping and I was baking in the kitchen.  The girls came in and said, "We want to do an art project with clay and food coloring and glitter."  I replied hesitantly, "Okay, but try to keep the mess somewhat contained."  Staley responded, "We won't make a mess."  To which Adelie quickly added, "We'll try not to make a mess.  We'll try."

I appreciate that Adelie has realized her own limitations.  Not making a mess just isn't in the cards for her, but at least she's aware of that reality.  At this point, I'll settle for trying.

There are many things she is good at.
Neatness is not one of them.

Monday, March 26, 2018

Adelie's Birthday

Yesterday was Adelie's birthday.  She had a fun birthday party with Briggs last week-end, but that didn't mean her actual birthday was any less special.  She picked out a special "fancy" dress to wear to church.  She took treats to her friends in Sunday School.  The whole church sang "Happy Birthday" to her at lunch.  She got phone calls from some of her cousins and aunts.  Since we got 6-8" of snow the day before (WHAT?!?!), Adelie and Staley played out in the snow for a few hours with Zach and our backyard neighbors.  They called it their "sledding party" since they spent most of the time sliding down our little backyard hill.

March blizzard means snowy birthday fun.

After snowy day fun, a warm shower, and putting on another tutu dress, Adelie enjoyed her birthday dinner of choice (meatballs with cheesy carrots and fruit) with grandparents.

What a lucky girl to get to spend her birthday with Uma and Papa...

...and Grammie and Grandpa.

There were a few presents to open from us and grandparents, including some Wellie Wisher clothes and accessories, mermaid pajamas, and her own scooter.

Staley used her caring coupons from school to buy Adelie some slime at the Caring Coupon Store.  Then she made her a book called "Slime, Slime, Slime" with interesting facts that we looked up about slimy things like snails, slugs, frogs, and snakes.  Adelie was very pleased.

And no birthday is complete without birthday treats.  Adelie requested Staley's famous Muddy Buddies (puppy chow) and mint chip ice cream.

To round out Adelie's birthday fun, I planned a little play date with a few friends and cousins this morning.  Initially I had hoped to meet at a park to play.  However since the ground is still covered in several inches of snow and the temperatures were still in the 30's this morning, we met at McDonald's to play and eat instead.

A few of Adelie's friends (Reese, Grant, Preston, and Jaci) and a few cousins (Liam, Caroline, and Lucy) met us for the fun.  Adelie had a great time!

We got home just in time to grab Adelie's treats for pre-school (ice cream sandwiches) and head to school with her friends.  

What a fun birthday for my big 5 year old!!

Interview with a Five Year Old

Favorite color: Silver and gold and purple
Favorite food: Meatballs
Least favorite food:  Broccoli and lettuce and tomatoes
Favorite restaurant:  McDonald's
Favorite dessert: Ice cream sandwiches, cookies, suckers, tootsie rolls, tootsie pops, cotton candy
Favorite toy: My Wellie Wisher stuff, my Ariel necklace, Barbies, figurines, Calico Critters
Favorite stuffed animal: Fuzzington (her new bear from Aunt Jan and Uncle Jack), Chartreuse (her new mermaid stuffed animal from Uma and Papa), Cruz, Paw (leopard)
Favorite animal: Dolphins, tigers, kitties, jaguars
Favorite game: Candyland, Mermaid Island, My Little Ponies, Apples to Apples
Favorite movie: Little Mermaid
Favorite sport: Soccer and t-ball (although she hasn't actually played t-ball yet)
Favorite thing to do at home:  Play with Mommy and Daddy, do art crafts
Favorite thing about school: Snack
Favorite place to go: church and the zoo, especially the St. Louis zoo 
Favorite place for vacation:  Disney World and Chicago and St. Louis and Pentwater
Favorite thing to do with Staley: Play American Girl Dolls and Barbies and do art crafts and listen to books on tape
Favorite thing to do with Briggs: Play Baby Pud and Sam
Favorite thing to do with Mommy: Do art crafts
Favorite thing to do with Daddy: Play hide and seek
Favorite book: The falcon book (Jigsaw Jones and the Case of the Missing Falcon) and the monkey house book (Cam Jansen and the Mystery in the Monkey House) and the frog princess books (Those are all chapter books we've read together recently.) and Elephant and Piggie books, especially she's a flying turnip head (I Will Take a Nap) and Watch Me Throw the Ball
Favorite princess:  Ariel and Jasmine and Mulan
Favorite superhero: Supergirl, Wonder Woman, Batgirl, Poisen Ivy, Bumblebee, Superman, Aquaman
Favorite outfit: My mermaid no-sleeves purple dress with sea stars all around the mermaid
Favorite pajamas: My Ariel nightgown

What are some things you're excited about doing when you're 5? Kindergarten, getting really tall and brave and strong
What are you scared of? Ghosts, zombies, monsters, giants, Frankenstein
What's the best thing about you? That I'm 5.
What are you good at? Drawing, school, listening, sharing
Who is your best friend? Reese (a boy from school), Jaci, Staley, Mommy, Daddy, Briggy, Mrs. Doty's Kylee, Lola
What do you want to be when you grow up?  A ballerina, a pop star, a mermaid, a fairy

*Obviously this girl has a lot of favorites.  :)

And this girl is my favorite too!

Sunday, March 25, 2018

Happy Birthday, Adelie!

Five years!  How can five years have flown by already?  Each birthday brings so much joy and excitement into our home, but there is something a little bittersweet about celebrating this passage of time.


Where has this baby gone?  I love when my spindly five year old wraps her wiry legs around me when I pick her up, but I still miss this little head on my chest.  I love when my independent five year old proudly surprises me with a cleaned up playroom or a zipped up coat, but I still remember that helpless baby who needed me to meet her every need.  I love watching my confident five year old run into Sunday School or pre-school or story hour without even a glance back in my direction, but I also vividly recall those days when she was happy to just spend the day napping in my arms.  I love seeing the kind-hearted, generous, social, fun little girl that my Adelie is growing up to be, but that doesn't mean that seeing her baby pictures doesn't give me a twinge of sadness as I think about how quickly these past 5 years have gone.  I love being Adelie's mom.  I loved it when she was a helpless baby in my arms...

and I love it now that she's my independent, confident, funny, sweet, amazing 5 year old!

Happy birthday, my Adelie girl!!
Time is flying by, but thanks for bringing me along for the ride.

Tuesday, March 20, 2018

Briggs's Birthday

As I was writing the party blog post, I realized that I never blogged about Briggs's actual birthday.  I might have forgotten to blog about it because it was pretty uneventful.  Briggs's birthday was a cold, dreary day.  Since Briggs is generally happy playing at home, we just enjoyed a leisurely day at home rather than braving the weather for a birthday outing.  We played train table.  We played cars and trucks.  Briggs took a good nap.  And then Briggs enjoyed his birthday dinner of choice (meatballs) and dessert of choice (brownies and ice cream) with Grammie and Grandpa, followed by a few presents.  It wasn't super exciting, but Briggs had a great day nonetheless.

Blowing out his birthday candle.

Adelie was VERY eager to help Briggs open his gifts.  She had to be reminded many times to let him open his own gifts.

The girls had decided that they wanted to make Briggs rocks and boulders for his birthday that he could use with his diggers and trains.  Since most of our Play Doh was already gray from mixing all the colors together, the girls fashioned a variety of sizes and shapes of "rocks" out of Play Doh.  Then we let them dry and Briggs now has lots of rocks that his diggers can scoop up, his dump trucks can haul, and that he can pile up on his train tracks.  He loved his gift from his sisters, and I love their creative minds.

Briggs only request for his birthday was a shovel for digging in the dirt.  Done!

A shovel, brownies, play time at home, and lots of love from family.  What more could a 3 year old want???


Party Time

Briggs had an early March birthday and Adelie's birthday is the end of March.  So this week-end (in the middle of March), we had a combined birthday party for our 3 year old and almost 5 year old.  For the third year in a row, Adelie wanted a mermaid party.  Briggs wanted a train party.  And so a mermaid and train party we had.

We had mermaid and train decorations.

The kids worked very hard on this mermaid and train mural.

And, of course, there were mermaid and train cupcakes.  We even had a mermaid and train music trivia game.

There were cousins and lots of family present to celebrate our 2 birthday kids.

There were yummy treats.

There were presents.

There were many sweet homemade cards from cousins.

And for those who stayed to the bitter end, there was even a magic show.

What a fun day...

...celebrating our birthday kiddos!

Friday, March 16, 2018

New Wheels

About 7.5 years ago, we were expecting Staley and Zach took me to see a mini van that someone was selling.  I didn't want a mini van.  I didn't want to be a mini van kind of mom.  I wanted to be a cool, adventurous, SUV-to-take-our-kids-on-outdoorsy-adventures kind of mom.  However, the van was too much of a deal to pass up, so we got it.  And I came to realize that the mini van was the vehicle I never knew I always wanted.

Well, 7.5 years later this mini van has transitioned with us from one kid to three kids.  It has weathered diaper blow outs, spilled snacks, melted crayons, and muddy feet.  It has traveled over 200, 000 miles in the 13 years it's been around, and has served us well.  With the years and the miles have come the battle scars of living a long life of service.  There is the rust.  The dents.  The bashed in right rear corner.  The cracked windshield.  The leaky fluids.  It's been a good van, but it's time to move on.

Good-bye, Old Girl!

As we are always in the market for a good deal, Zach kept an eye on the State Farm company car auction site, looking for a "new" vehicle to meet our needs.  A red beauty caught his eye, and his last minute bidding strategy made her ours.  After a quick flight to Nebraska and an 8 hour drive to bring her home, Zach introduced our new van to the family.  We were all smitten by her fun features (hello, back up camera and blue tooth capability) and her shiny exterior.  With a little extra love from Zach and Briggs, she was cleaned, polished, and looking good as new.

There's no relationship quite like a boy and his shop vac.

Seven and half years ago, I learned that there is so much to love about a mini van.  This time I didn't need any convincing.

I'm already in love!

Monday, March 12, 2018

3 Years Old

As hard as it is to believe, my baby boy is 3 years old.  And is my custom, this is my lengthy blog post about Briggs at his new age.  Briggs currently weighs 30 lbs and is 37" high.  He is still wearing some of his 2T clothes, but is primarily wearing his 3T clothes and his size 7 shoes.  Briggs is fully potty trained during the day, including naps, but still wears a pull-up for sleeping at night.  He is dry in the morning about 50% of the time.  Briggs has started going to 3-5 year old story hour at the library and just started Sunday School and Children's Church at church this week rather than being in the nursery.  Briggs sleeps for about 10-12 hours at night and still generally takes about a 2 hour nap in the afternoons, although rolls with it pretty well if he has to miss his nap.

He's a pretty easy-going guy!

Likes:  Briggs likes anything with wheels.  Favorite toys are his cars and trucks, train table, Paw Patrol characters and vehicles, and his diggers.  He loves to build with Magna Tiles, and also enjoys Mega blocks, and his big cardboard blocks.  Briggs is still drawn to tiny things and plays with his Busy Book characters a lot.  Wherever we go, Briggs is generally carrying something small, whether it's a train, car, character, or vehicle.  Briggs loves to read and will sit for long periods of time to listen to books being read to him.  Of course, he loves books about vehicles.  Thomas books, Elephant and Piggie books, and the Pigeon books are favorite book series. 

Just doing a little silent reading

Briggs loves to play games and is usually happy to play whatever his sisters choose.  Given his choice, he usually picks the Blaze game, Tumble, Take the Cake, or Tumbling Monkeys.  He also likes to play with the little trains in Ticket to Ride and the little cupcakes in Princess Cupcake Party.  We rarely watch television, but if given the chance to watch something, Briggs generally chooses Paw Patrol, Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, Blaze and the Monster Machines, Thomas, or Veggie Tales.  He loves the vehicles from the Cars movies, although is scared of mean school bus from Cars 3.  Briggs enjoys playing outside.  He loves his sandbox, but also enjoys sidewalk chalk (where he is always asking people to draw a train for him), his ride on toys, and his scooter.  He also has some tools outside and can often be found fixing his digger, fire engine, or cozy coupe car.

Outside time is always fun!

Briggs is a generally good eater.  Favorite foods include chicken nuggets, meatballs, quesadillas, waffles/pancakes, pizza, cereal, most fruits, and most sweet treats.  Briggs wears whatever I pick out for him, but loves to wear clothes and PJs with vehicles on them.  He also likes to wear his tie and bow tie. 

Briggs loves his race car pajamas!

Briggs is pretty social, and enjoys playing with other kids at the park, nursery, church, and library.  He loves playing with his cousins and his sisters.  And he's still a bit of a Mama's boy.  (This Mama doesn't mind.  :))

He loves his Mom!

And his sisters too!

Dislikes:  Briggs does not like stopping fun activities or waiting for things he wants, although is controlling his reaction to this a little better at times.  He does not like anything even remotely scary and is opposed to watching most movies unless we can assure him that there are no bad guys or scary parts.  Even then, he's often not to sure about it.  He also takes out bad guy figurines (like Ursula or Mother Gothel) from the figurine box and puts them in my room.  There have even been a few library books that have "scary pictures", like the giant in Jack and the Beanstalk, and Briggs refuses to read them.  Briggs won a big minion pillow from a library drawing.  He likes it, but doesn't want it in his room at night.  Briggs is a generally good eater but does not like most casseroles.

Skills:  Briggs is a pretty active little guy.  He runs fast, jumps, climbs, goes up and down stairs, and propels his scooter pretty well.  He never quite mastered pedaling his bike last fall, so we'll see how he does in the spring.  He's pretty cautious about most things and has to be encouraged to try things on his own rather than having someone help him.  Briggs is pretty good about figuring out how to open and close things, use his tools, activate different levers and toys, and build things.  He likes to scribble, paint, glue, and put stickers on paper.  He enjoys family games and is pretty good at understanding the rules and taking his turn.  Briggs is pretty independent.  He feeds himself, although needs reminders to use his silverware, and drinks from an open cup.  He washes his hands by himself, always insisting that I smell them when he's done so I can see how clean they are.  He helps brush his teeth.  He can take off his clothes, and can usually get his pants and underwear on if they are set out for him.  He can take off his shoes and coat, but can't yet get them on all by himself.  He can put on his own rain boots.  Briggs can take himself to the bathroom, but still needs help with wiping and clothing management.  He also likes to help in the kitchen.  He's pretty good about cleaning up his toys when he's not upset about stopping whatever activity he was doing at the time.

He can also put on his own goggles.  :)

Briggs is a smart little guy.  He talks really well with some cute mispronunciations.  He uses some Adelie-isms like saying "bed-night" instead of nighttime and "this day" and "next day" instead of today and tomorrow.  He also says "next time" instead of 'last time' or yesterday.  Briggs counts really well, counting by himself to 29, although, like Adelie used to, he always says "14, 14, 16" instead of "13, 14, 15, 16".  He does really well with 1 to 1 correspondence when counting objects and items, and loves to count objects.   He can sing his ABCs, knows most of his colors (although still gets tripped up with gray), knows most of his simple shapes (although still finds square and rectangle tricky), knows the names of most construction and train equipment, is very observant and curious about things he sees and hears,  and has a good memory for things that happened "next time."

He's my smart little guy!

Briggs is a very sweet little guy.  He loves to cuddle and gives lots of hugs.  He uses good manners and is concerned when someone is crying or hurt.  He is quick with an "I love you", which always melts my heart.  Briggs loves to make people laugh, especially his sisters, and often resorts to "potty talk" to make this happen.  He is often talking about poop or pee or toots or bottoms or burping or being naked.  *sigh*    But despite that, Briggs is a happy, giggly, sweet, snuggly, loving, smart, fun, amazing little boy.  I'm so glad he's mine!!

He's 3!!

Friday, March 9, 2018

He Says...

Three year olds always have the most amusing things to say.

The other evening Briggs came into the kitchen while I was making supper.  He asked what I was making, and I told him I was making tacos and quesadillas.  In a surprised way, he said, "That's not disgusting."
#ringingendorsement

Any time we are having a baby-sitter, instead of asking who it is or who is going to watch him or who is going to baby-sit, Briggs always asks, "Who is going to visit me?"
#paidvisitors

Briggs has a great imagination and is very good at pretending.  The other day, he was playing with James (a red train from Thomas).  I said, "Are you playing with James?"  He responded, "No.  This is Thomas painted red."  Briggs also loves to play with his Cars characters.  For his birthday, he got the car Jackson Storm.  Briggs told me, "I'm going to pretend that Jackson Storm is Lightning McQueen."  I reminded Briggs that he actually has a Lightning McQueen car, and he said, "But this is another Lightning McQueen."
#notpicky

Last night at dinner, Adelie asked what kind of cheese was in the casserole.  Briggs answered, "Maybe it's Chuckie Cheese."
#letshopenot

Love this boy and the way he makes me laugh.



Monday, March 5, 2018

Interview with a 3 Year Old

Favorite color: Red
Favorite food: Chicken nuggets (although he calls them 'chicken nunnets')
Food you don't like:  Broccoli
Favorite restaurant:  Michael's
Favorite dessert: Cake
Favorite toy: Cars and trucks
Favorite stuffed animal: Leopard
Favorite animal: Elephant
Favorite game: the Blaze game
Favorite movie: Paw Patrol, Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, Blaze and the Monster Machines (These are actually TV shows, but Briggs is generally scared of movies and prefers to watch episodes of these shows instead.)
Favorite place to go:  The children's museum with the making sound tunnel (I think he's referring to the train table at the Peoria Children's Museum.)
Favorite thing to do with Adelie: Play Barbies with Adelie and Grammie
Favorite thing to do with Staley: Play train table
Favorite thing to do with Mommy: Play train table
Favorite thing to do with Daddy: Play train table
Favorite book: Thomas books (Thomas the Tank Engine)
Favorite princess:  Tiana
Favorite superhero: Batman
Favorite pajamas: My Green Lantern ones

What are some things you'll do when you are 3? Go to Sunday School and Children's Church
What are you scared of? Monsters, dinosaurs, dragons, more dinosaurs, and bats, but not the ones at the zoo because they are in a cave.  I am only scared of the outside ones.
What are you good at? Playing, taking a bath, going to bed, playing trucks
Who is your best friend? Quinn (a little boy that Briggs plays with in the nursery at church)
What do you want to be when you grow up?  I want to be a train engineer and ride a real train with real tracks and a bridge and a tunnel.

Love this little 3 year old!


Happy Birthday, Briggs!!

3 years ago today, our world of pink and princesses and Barbies and bows was turned upside down when this little guy entered our lives, but it didn't take long to realize that raising a boy would be just as much fun.


Briggs has filled our lives and completed our family.  Now along with princesses and Barbies, our lives are filled with diggers and trains.  The pink and bows around the house are complemented with blue and bow ties.  Dolls and dinosaurs.  Mermaids and monster trucks.  Our home has changed, but in the best way possible.  I couldn't imagine life without this sweet, snuggly, smart, funny, train-loving, vehicle-playing, tool-using, sand-digging boy of mine.

Happy 3rd birthday, Briggs!!
You are more loved than you could ever know.


Sunday, March 4, 2018

Merry Christmas to Me

I finally got to enjoy my big Christmas gift from Zach this week-end as we enjoyed a long week-end get-away to St. Louis together.  I love my kids and I love traveling with my kids, but there are also so many things to love about a kid-free week-end.

I love sleeping in.
I love long, leisurely meals at nice restaurants.
I love uninterrupted conversations.
I love not having to worry about schedules and naps and potty breaks.
I love packing light.
I love making decisions as we go.
I love grown-up entertainment.
Did I mention sleeping in?

We had a lovely St. Louis week-end.  We slept in.  We shopped.  We went running.  We ate at fabulous restaurants.  We enjoyed the beautiful weather while meandering around the zoo and Forest Park.  (Even without kids, I still love the St. Louis zoo.)  And we went to the Fox Theater to see 'Chicago.'  I love my kids, but I also love my kid-free week-ends...

...especially when I get to share them with this man!
Merry Christmas to me!!