Adelie and Staley's World

Adelie and Staley's World

Monday, March 16, 2020

Five Years Old

This is my annual lengthy post about my kids at each age.  Be warned.

Briggs is officially five years old.  He weighs 39 lbs (37th percentile) and is 43" tall (52nd percentile).  Briggs is outgrowing some of his 4T clothes and is now wearing some of his 5T clothes.  He wears size 10 shoes.  Briggs sleeps about 11-12 hours each night, going to bed around 8:00 and waking up between 7:00 and 8:00.  He goes to pre-school 3 afternoons each week in Ms. Stork's class, goes to library story hour, and enjoys Wednesday evening Kids Connection at church and Sunday School and Children's Church on Sundays.  He played soccer in the fall.


Likes:  Briggs loves all things vehicles.  His favorite toys are generally vehicle toys:  his trains and train table, his cars and diggers, his Big Wheel and his bike.  He loves to build with blocks and magna tiles, but is often building bridges, tunnels, and buildings for his vehicles.  In the bathtub, he loves to play with his boats.  He LOVES books, but always looks for vehicle books at the library.  He also has a great sense of humor and always enjoys and understands clever or funny children's books as well.  Briggs now enjoys a variety of movies and TV shows, but Thomas the Train movies, Cars, Planes, and Blaze and the Monster Machines are all favorites.  He also enjoys Paw Patrol and Puppy Dog Pals.  Briggs enjoys drawing, although his specialty is drawing trains.  He also loves doing puzzles (and is very good at them).  Listening to books on tape is another favorite activity.  Briggs rarely plays in the playroom without turning on his favorite audio series, "The Pond."

Playing with his cars is a favorite activity.

 Briggs is a very easy-going boy.  He always likes playing at home, but also enjoys a good outing.  He is very easy to take to the grocery store, Target, or running errands.  He's always game for a trip to the library, the park, the zoo, or a museum.  Wildlife Prairie Park is a favorite because they have a train you can ride.  He has also recently discovered the Caterpillar Museum and has enjoyed that as well.  Briggs has lots of friends that he enjoys spending time with.  Dava is the friend he talks about the most, but he also plays really nicely with Grace (our neighbor) when I watch her on Monday mornings.  He runs around with a group of little boys after church on Sundays with Quinn being his most talked about church friend.  His sisters remains his favorite friends and playmates.

Briggs and Dava sharing his umbrella on a rainy day

Briggs and Grace helping in the kitchen

Briggs just loves his sisters!!

 Briggs is a pretty good eater.  He eats fruits and veggies and breads really well with some resistance to a few of the main dishes I make.  Favorite foods include sloppy joes, meatballs, pancakes, grilled cheese, chicken nuggets, Grammie carrots (cooked carrots with butter and brown sugar), and sweets.  He's pretty easy going about what he wears, but prefers athletic pants and fleece pajamas.

Briggs loves his fleece pajamas all year long.

Dislikes:  Briggs is a creature of habit, so he does not like when things do not go according to his routine, like forgetting to turn on his fan before bed.  He is not always patient when asking for something or wanting to tell me something or waiting for me to do something with him while I am busy.  Briggs remains sensitive to certain things and does not like storms, "scary/intense" parts of movies, or going upstairs by himself (when no one else is up there.)  He also does not like when Adelie doesn't blow her nose in a timely manner.  He has improved in many areas since last summer, so I'm not sure how bothered he will be this summer about beach umbrellas and fireworks, but those would both fall under the "dislike" category upon our last known interactions with them.  Briggs also does not like "itchy" sweaters and he insists on wearing the hood if he is wearing a hooded shirt.

He prefers his comfy pants and sweatshirts.

Skills:  Briggs is a pretty coordinated little guy.  He runs fast.  He rides his Big Wheel, scooter, and bike (with training wheels) really well.  He does pretty well catching and throwing larger balls and stuffed animals.  Briggs is very good at puzzles, completing 100 piece puzzles by himself and 200 piece puzzles with a little help.  He can color in the lines, draws with most of his objects recognizable, and can write his name legibly (with his g's and s occasionally backwards).  Briggs is pretty independent.  He can get himself dressed (including buttons and zippers), pick out his outfits (although still thinks that pants and shirts of the exact same color is a great matching outfit), take himself to bathroom, wash himself up in the shower, and brush his own teeth.  (I know I should help him more with that than I do.  #3rd kid.)

Briggs with his favorite (205 piece) puzzle.

 Briggs loves to be a helper.  He enjoys helping make things in the kitchen.  He is good about cleaning up, clearing his plate, putting dirty clothes in the hamper, putting things in the recycling, and doing his jobs (taking off his bed sheets, putting on his pillowcase, and cleaning the sides of the tub) every Sunday.  He's always happy to help out with yard work or projects that Zach is doing.  Briggs is a bright little guy.  He now knows all his upper case letters, about 2/3 of his lower case letters, his numbers 1-10 (with difficulty knowing the difference between 6 and 9), and can count to 100 (with some help knowing the tens place after 30).  Briggs knows all of his colors and shapes.  He knows his letter sounds and is beginning to sound out some simple words.

Briggs helping Daddy fix the refrigerator.

Working in the yard

Briggs is a very sweet boy.  He is generally kind and thoughtful.  He loves to snuggle and gives sincere compliments.  Briggs is a thinker, talks through things he's trying to figure out, and has a very good memory.  He is also very observant.  He still demonstrates tantrums, fits, and a quick temper when things aren't going his way, but he is also quick to apologize for his outbursts with sincere regret.  Briggs does really well patiently waiting and entertaining himself while we are running errands or while he accompanies me to an appointment.  Briggs is a good friend.  He is great at sharing, will often play what others want to play, and compromises well.   He also entertains himself and can play well on his own.  He is developing an understanding of God and his power and is sincere in his beliefs.  I love Briggs's sweet, gentle, loving self.

I sure do love my 5 year old!!

Friday, March 13, 2020

February Highlights

As a cold, bleak, non-descript month of never-ending winter, there are generally very few highlights in February.  As someone who takes multitudes of pictures, my February folder of photos is annually the smallest and scarcest of the bunch.  Nevertheless there are a few activities in February that help us enjoy this worst month of the year.

Although Valentine's Day is not what I would consider a banner holiday, the kids enjoy parties at school and sharing valentines with friends.  Valentine's Day seems to be a pretty fitting holiday for February.  Pretty weak in comparison to other holidays, but better than nothing.

Staley enjoys making her own valentines for school and was excited about this photo valentine idea.  A bit more expensive than previous years, but way easier than hand-drawing 25 valentines.

This was also the first year that we had to make the dreaded valentine box.  In this Pinterest world of elaborate ideas and time-consuming DIY projects, I was pleased that Staley's idea for her box was easy, quick, and cute.

The other February highlight was the Daddy-Daughter Dance.

The girls were excited about getting dressed up, getting their hair done, and having a special night out with Daddy.

They had a ball!!  They went out to dinner and then danced the night away.  Well, until 8:30 anyway.  Apparently their dance moves garnered considerable attention during the dance contest, although they did not end up winning.

They both thoroughly enjoyed their night with Daddy and their friends.

And Briggs and I enjoyed our own date night while they were away with his activities of choice:  dinner at Steak and Shake followed by "movie" night consisting of several episodes of 'Bubble Guppies.'  I always love time with my little guy!!

February is not my favorite month.  February weather is not my favorite weather.  February holidays are not my favorite holidays.  And February highlights tend to be few and far between.  Nevertheless, my family and time spent with them is my favorite.  So I can overlook what February doesn't have going for it because it's another month that I get to enjoy my beautiful family.

Monday, March 9, 2020

Heart-less

Briggs was eating dinosaur chicken nuggets for lunch today.  Briggs said, "I don't think that dinosaurs have hearts."  I replied, "I'm sure that dinosaurs did have hearts.  People and animals need hearts to live."  Briggs responded, "Well, then they are probably old and rusty hearts since dinosaurs aren't very nice."

Briggs's Birthday

Briggs had his birthday last Thursday.  Thursdays are always Briggy-Mommy day.  No work.  No pre-school.  It's the one full day each week that we have nothing on the schedule, so we were able to take the full day to celebrate together.

We kicked off the day by dropping off the girls at school and then heading to McDonald's for breakfast smoothies and play time with a friend.

Briggs had the best time starting off his birthday by playing with Dava (and her little sister).  They played for almost 2 hours together, and Briggs was also SO excited that Dava brought him a present.  The perfect start to a fun day!

When I asked Briggs what he wanted to do for his birthday, he said, "Go to the Caterpillar Museum and eat at McDonald's."  So after breakfast we headed to the Caterpillar Museum.  He started to realize that his "Birthday Boy" button that I talked him into wearing was paying off when lots of people wished him a happy birthday and the people at the museum gave him a free hat.

We spent almost 2 hours here as well.  Briggs loved climbing into all the big diggers and machines, using the simulators, building with Legos, and walking through all the displays of vehicles and machinery.

We had so much fun that we were running a little behind schedule to take Staley to her orthodontist appointment.  We grabbed some McDonald's in the car (winner!!) and took Staley to her appointment.  When the orthodontist found out it was Briggs's birthday, he gave him some Dairy Queen gift cards.  On the way home from the appointment, Briggs said, "Maybe I'll wear my birthday button tomorrow too!"  Smart boy!!

We finished off the fun day with birthday dinner and presents at home with Grammie and Grandpa.  We had Briggs's birthday dinner of choice (sloppy joes, Grammie carrots, peas, grapes, and no salad) and his dessert of choice (Oreo balls and Uncle Bob's ice cream.)  Briggs opened a few presents like a sleeping bag and Hatchimals and walkie-talkies and a CD player for his room with a Thomas CD.  What a full and fun day he had!

And then Briggs got to celebrate again when he took popsicles to school to celebrate his birthday the next day.  Briggs had a great time celebrating the fact that he is now a big 5 year old!

Interveiw with a Five Year Old

Favorite color:  All the colors in the world
Favorite food:  Meatballs
Least favorite food:  Black bean sandwiches
Favorite restaurant:  Rainforest Cafe and McDonald's
Favorite dessert:  All of them, but mostly candy.
Favorite toy:  Cars and trains and anything with wheels and even boats
Favorite stuff animal:  Bear Bear and Froggie
Favorite animal:  Baby chicks
Favorite game:  I have lots of them so I'll just tell you one...Mermaid Island
Favorite movie:  Blaze and Paw Patrol and Cinderella and Frozen II and Ella Enchanted
Favorite sport:  the Bears
Favorite thing to do at home:  Play
Favorite thing about school:  Play time
Favorite place to go locally:  State Farm pool and Wildlife Prairie Park
Favorite place to go on vacation:  Disney World
Favorite thing to do with Staley:  Snuggle
Favorite thing to do with Adelie:  Play
Favorite thing to do with Mommy:  Go swimming and play
Favorite thing to do with Daddy:  Do puzzles
Favorite book:  I don't know.  I like lots of books.
Favorite princess:  Tianna
Favorite superhero:  All of them
Favorite pajamas:  My new dinosaur ones from Dava
Favorite play you've seen:  Peter Pan

What are you excited about doing when you are 5?  Riding Seven Dwarves Mine Train at Disney World

What are you scared of?  The dark
What's the best thing about you?  I'm 5
What are you good at?  Building and running and puzzles and drawing trains
Who is your best friend?  Dava
What do you want to be when you grow up?  I don't know.


My big 5 year old!!

Happy Birthday, Briggs!

When you have a new baby, your mind always wonders what they will be like as they get older.  You look at that snuggly little bundle and think about what they will look like or what things they will most enjoy or what their over-arching personality will be.


Then they grow up right before your eyes and you don't have to wonder quite so much.  You can fill in some of the blanks when, 5 years later, you realize that they love vehicles, have a generally calm demeanor, like things to be in order, are cautious and sensitive, excel at puzzles, play really nicely with others, and still love to snuggle.


I'm not sure where these last 5 years have gone, but I love getting to see the little guy that my baby is growing up to be.  I can't wait to fill in some more blanks as Briggs continues to grow and change.  I may be a few days late with this post, but a big happy birthday to my baby boy!  I love who you are and can't wait to see who you become!

Monday, March 2, 2020

Another First (and Second)

Staley has once again introduced us to parenting firsts.  We have now experienced our first (and second) time experiencing the fear of watching our child pass out.

Staley got her ears pierced for her birthday a month and half ago.  She anxiously waited for those first 6 weeks until she could change her earrings.  Having received a plethora of new earrings for her birthday, she couldn't wait to try them all out.  On the exact 6 week anniversary of getting her ears pierced, Staley picked out the new earrings she wanted to put in.  I helped her remove her earrings and clean her ears.  I helped put in the first new earring and as Staley went to put in the second one on her own, she passed out cold.  Luckily I was standing next to her and caught her as she went down.

After thoroughly scaring us both, we put some more protective measures into place for future earring changes.  I was in charge of changing Staley's earrings while she sat on the floor.  We thought it was safer if she didn't even watch in the mirror and always waited a minute or two before having her stand back up.  Two weeks and several earring changes later (yesterday), Staley wanted to put in new earrings for church.  She picked out some cute dangly heart earrings and she sat down while I put them in.  A few minutes later, she walked into the bathroom to do her hair.  She looked in the mirror, saw a speck of blood on her earlobe from changing her earrings, and passed out again.  This time I wasn't close enough to catch her and she hit her head on the wall twice as she went down.  Those 10-20 seconds before she came around lasted forever.

As reassurance for both Staley and I, I took her to the doctor this morning to discuss these two episodes.  Although the doctor was not overly concerned, she did note that kids who are prone to these episodes often experience more of them through adolescence.  Staley already gets light headed anytime she sees her own blood.  She freaks out about losing teeth, getting shots, or having splinters removed.  She's passed out twice now over changing her earrings.  And we now know that this will probably get worse before it gets any better.

Those two episodes were very scary for both Staley and I.  We now know for certain that Staley will not be pursuing a career in the medical field.  She should probably never try to give blood.  She'll need to be extra cautious if she ever gets cut or injured when she's out playing with her friends.  And we won't be changing her earrings again until she's 16.

There are parenting firsts that bring so much joy.  This was not one of them.  But those earrings sure do look cute!