Adelie and Staley's World

Adelie and Staley's World

Friday, January 7, 2022

She Writes...

Day at the Park
by Adelie

As you lay on the blanket, checkered red and white
The wild flowers so pretty
The grass green as grapes
Your singing a song and dancing along
you are by yourself in the morning.

You lay on your towle, with the sun shining high in the sky
It is so hot, you are sweating a lot.
You take out your lunch, sandwiches as you tast the
peanut butter and jelly, chips, and fruit.
After you finish your lunch, you play a bunch.

As the sun starts to sink
you watch it at the lake,
the bright light and red, orange, yellow ball 
growing small, watch it fall.

As you pack up your bag, what a time you had
with the stars shining bright
you walk through the night.

Questions of the Day

Although Briggs has a past precedent for sleep walking, we hadn't had any recent instances that we were aware of.  However, the other day I went to throw something away in the garbage can in our bedroom.  I lifted the lid and realized that there was liquid in the bottom of the trash can.  It didn't take long to discover that the liquid was urine.  It was a mystery to everyone in the household, so the only logical explanation was that Briggs had used our trash can as a toilet in his sleep.  

So the question:  How concerned should I be that my son is sleep peeing?  Or should I just be pleased that it wasn't in his bed...or his bookcase...or OUR bed?  Is this yet another repercussion of encouraging him to pee standing up?  And, if so, is it too late to reverse course?

Life with kids is always an adventure.  And sometimes that adventure includes garbage can pee.

Thursday, January 6, 2022

They Say...

When we were deciding on a movie to watch, Briggs got upset about the chosen movie, claiming how much he didn't like it.  It was a movie we had watched for the first time last year and all enjoyed as a family.  As we were watching the movie, Briggs kept talking about "favorite parts" and getting excited about things he remembered.  When the movie was over, I said, "I thought you said you didn't like this movie, but you seemed to really enjoy it."  To which Briggs responded, "I meant that I didn't like it when I was little."  Guess one year can make a big difference when you go from being little to being big.

The other night I was sitting on the edge of the tub as I was starting some bath water for Briggs.  He came in to use the restroom and proceeded to accidentally pee a little on my foot.  I exclaimed, "Briggs!  You just peed on my foot!"  To which he responded, "Sorry.  I'm still not very good at aiming.  I peed on my foot a little too."  I don't think this standing up to pee thing is all it's cracked up to be.

Adelie was telling me about a game she was playing with her figurines.  She had a bunch of mermaids that turned into humans because they all liked the same prince.  The prince was going to have a ball to choose which girl he liked.  (Zach said it sounded like "The Bachelor.")  I replied, "Or maybe they all realize that they are strong, independent women and don't need a prince.  Maybe they should all go start their own companies."  Adelie thought about this for a second and then responded, "Nah."  Can't say I didn't try.



Christmas Letter

I always post our Christmas letter on the blog to archive it.  So here it is:

Like many of you, we enjoyed watching the summer Olympics as a family earlier this year.  We cheered for our favorite athletes, felt pride in the American medal count, watched the drama unfold in the gymnastics arena, and determined that all the dives look exactly the same, regardless of what the judges and commentators say.  In keeping with the Olympic spirit, here are the Olympic sports our family would have competed in throughout this past year…if things like laundry and reading were, in fact, Olympic sports.

Zach:  Zach participated for the second year in a row in working-from-home-without-going-crazy.  Still working for State Farm, Zach had to find alternate training strategies for things like maintaining social skills when your days are spent alone in the basement and accomplishing company goals when your on-site co-workers are cats.  He also would have medaled in coordinating the St. Jude Run in the midst of a pandemic, running lots of miles at insanely early hours, catching and “relocating” neighborhood raccoons, and maintaining eternal optimism during yet another disappointing Bear’s season.

Ellen:  My year was spent primarily focusing on the never-ending endurance event of keeping track of everyone’s schedules and activities while making sure the house is clean-(ish), ensuring there is (mostly adequate) food to eat, and seeing that the (endless mountain of) laundry is at least washed.  (Folded and put away is an entirely different category of competition that my rigorous training schedule just doesn’t always have time for.)  Working my 2 days a week at the Children’s Hospital, volunteering at the kids’ schools, running, refereeing sibling arguments, and planning vacations were also events I dabbled in.

Staley:  As an almost 11 year old, Staley ventured into a novel sport of middle-school-student this year.  Her eye rolling skills are on-point, but she also was introduced to events like not forgetting your flute at home, catching the bus, and remembering your locker combination.  Staley continues to pour most of her free time and effort into singing, dancing, and acting…with a few scattered sports seasons, piano lessons, and library volunteering hours in the mix.  Her gold medal effort is definitely reading as many books as humanly possible.

Adelie:  At 8, Adelie continues to compete hard at keeping up with Staley.  Although Adelie also enjoys singing, dancing, acting, piano playing, and reading, she ventures into her own territory when it comes to tumbling and flexibility.  Her ability to spend inordinate amounts of time hanging upside down and touching her feet to her head is unparalleled.  Adelie is also a gold medal creativity winner when it comes to making just about anything out of paper and tape.

Briggs:  Six year old Briggs likes to keep his options open when it comes to his pseudo-Olympic endeavors.  Throughout this year, he has tried out soccer and basketball and running and acting.  He likes bike riding and reading and drawing and building and dinosaurs.  His most consistent interest remains a love of trains and vehicles and anything that goes.  A decathlete, perhaps?

As a family this year we participated together in road tripping (to Tennessee, South Dakota, and Michigan with a number of day/week-end trips to Chicago and St. Louis), hiking in National Parks, playing family games, eating lots of ice cream, running (including a first 5K for both girls), and complaining about household chores.  We did have to say a sad good-bye to our beloved almost 20 year old cat, Jake.  He was the all-time record holder in napping, snuggling, and sitting in boxes.  Elwood continues to carry the torch for his brother and geriatric cats worldwide.

Wishing you and yours a gold medal Christmas and a record-breaking 2022!



Question of the Day

Since we've all gotten into the habit of sleeping in until at least 8:00 or 9:00 every morning during the almost 3 weeks of the kids' Christmas break, who do you think had a harder time waking up this morning for school?  Me or the kids?

Trick question.  It was rough on all of us!

Saturday, January 1, 2022

Snow Day

Our 2022 started off with a lazy, wintery white day of fun.  With nowhere to go and nothing to do, the snow beckoned and we enjoyed some outdoor time as a family in the first true snowfall of winter.

The girls napped a little after their late night with friends, so Briggs and I ventured out first and made this little snowman to start off our snowy day fun.

Zach and the girls came out as Briggs and I were working on building a snow fort.  Soon everyone got in on the action.

The final result was a small little 'igloo' with 2 tunnels leading in from either side.  The kids loved it and were very proud!

It wasn't super roomy, but no one seemed to mind.  They just took turns hanging out in the fort and "warming up" while the other 2 sledded in the back yard.

Hooray for a snow day!  And hooray for hot chocolate and play baths to warm up after a few hours of playing in the snow.

Good-bye, December!

December started off full with performances and plays, Christmas programs and Christmas festivities.  Then we had a two week lull with COVID Christmas and quarantine.  Once released from our homebound status, we finished off the month with some fun.

Prior to our quarantine, a few other highlights included:

Helping Papa celebrate his 70th birthday with dessert, a fun Papa quiz, and time with family.

I enjoyed my work Christmas party at One World.

The girls and I went with my friend Christie and her girls (not pictured) to watch an ice skating show where our friend, Ava, performed.  (We had hoped to have more time to spend with Christie, Avery, and Isla but our COVID quarantine put a damper on that.)

Staley performed one last holiday show with her Rising Stars show choir group at a retirement center...

where Staley was chosen to perform her solo one more time.

When we were finally released from quarantine, the kids were itching to get out of the house and go somewhere.  With the high COVID case numbers, we were reluctant to be around many people, so we decided to take a family outing to the Peoria Zoo.

We were just about the only people at the zoo, so we got to enjoy plenty of fresh air, wide open space, and active animals.  The tiger and the lion were pacing right up next to their barrier and the takins were hanging out on their rocks.

Even the sloth woke up for a brief moment.  We followed up our zoo time with drive-through dinner from Chic-fil-A (complete with peppermint milkshakes) and then our second visit of the season to the Festival of Lights.  It was a great first outing after our time at home.

We ended our December (and our 2021) with an evening together with our friends, the Hostetlers.  We visited, snacked, and played games.  Zach and I left with Briggs around 11:00 (so late!), but the girls spent the night and rang in the new year by staying up past midnight (a first for them.)

Our December may not have been everything we had wanted it to be, but there were definitely plenty of shiny moments to enjoy.  Sometimes in the glittery moments, I forget to keep my focus on God.  The hard moments pull me back to a deeper reliance on Him.  As much as I prefer the glittery moments, the hard moments grow me in a way that the easy moments never do.

I am thankful for everything December brought our way.  From the good to the bad, we learned, we grew, we enjoyed, we struggled...but we did it as a family.  Good-bye, December.  Good-bye 2021.  We are ready to see what this new year has in store for us!